How should i handle this situation in order to actually get some good results?

Women communicate feelings better than men, and you need to remember this pregnancy is going to be a little stressful for both of you. There isn't any reason to play games. Talk with your bf and let him know that he is the most important person for you to have in the room with you at the time of the delivery. You might enroll in a Lamaze class to give you both a better idea of what to expect and then you can discuss this point again.