What would u do to correct this situation?

Gods girl you see how he treats his wife, what makes you think you'll fare any better? You need to meet some new people change your e-mail address and phone number and stop trolling for this guy,...you're behaving like a cheap tart who's got not respect for anyone but herself. Late bloomer or not it is now time to grow up and behave like a decent human being and leave other peoples marriages to succeed or fail with out your help.